10 THINGS MAN SHOULD DO AND SAY TO THEIR PREGNANT WIFE/ GIRLFRIEND

10 THINGS MAN SHOULD DO AND SAY TO THEIR PREGNANT WIFE/ GIRLFRIEND

When we woman are pregnant we get a lot of mixed emotion because of the crazy new hormones that we not used to and at some point we take them out to the cause of all this which at some point the man has to step in and save the day.

What man should do at this stage is to

1. Tell her how happy you are even if you kicking and screaming inside but her knowing you happy will lower her doubts and stress of the pregnancy.

2. Let her know that you are with her in every step of the way and you will support her however she wants you to and mean it because if you don't all hell will break lose on you.

3. Whether you around or not during the pregnancy morning calls, texts and even emails will mean a lot to her, asking how is she and saying all the little things that always make her smile.

4. Always remind her that she is beautiful all the time because pregnancy always make us feel ugly, fat and uncomfortable but if you remind her that she is beautiful that will make her really happy.

5. Always offer to do things for her so that she can rest, things like running errand, buying grocer, cooking and some of the chores in the house because when we pregnant we need to rest.

6. After a long day when she was running around at work or even in town, in the evening offer her a foot rub because standing for 2 people can be exhausting so let her lean back and just give her that foot massage and it will mean the world to her.

7. Always remind her to take her vitamins, because with all the work she will be doing it might slip her mind so be the saving grace and remind her.

8. Be intimate with her because at the end of the day she is not a sick patient, so when you get a chance when she is not pushing you away, show her that you still see her the was you used to and you appreciate the changes of her body and show her some love, mhhhm.

9. Always be willing to stop what ever you doing whenever her crazy craving kick in even if its the middle of the night, and please make sure you know what her cravings are so you can always keep them in the house because when she wants something everything doesn't matter to her.

10. And Finally, always be calm at all times even if she is screaming at you for no reason just be calm because the last thing we woman want is a man who turns away and not listen to what we have to say even it we shout it and even if you feel like its not important, always be calm.

BONUS TIP!
Always be the one to say “Honey, I'm sorry“ even if she was the one at wrong but always apologise because we dnt want the blood pressure hitting sky high because no one wants to end the argument because that can cause problems to the pregnancy so always make sure that little misunderstandings don't erupt like a volcano

Good Luck Daddies, make sure you bond with your wife and kid

Horror Deaths in Bizana, Eastern Cape, South Africa

Horror deaths in a small town of Eastern Cape, Bizana has left the residents of Highland more terrified of even their neighbours because they don't know who to trust anymore and even the police have became suspect because of their behaviour in response of these terrifying acts happening in this village.

About a year ago a very old woman was murdered in her home and was found by her son in the morning from work and the police have not arrested anyone till today because they say the residents got there first and messed with their so called evidence so it's a hard and waste of resources to follow.

On Friday the 28th of March 2014 I went home and I was told that a gal was found just few blocks from my house dead and her lower abdomen was cut open and her womb was taken out and was left there till someone saw her in the morning and if you were to see her picture you would been terrified as me and our lovely Cops said there is nothing they can do because the residents got there first and messed with the evidence which I don't know how.

And then in the morning I woke up and there was a lot of noise with people running and I didn't know what was happening till someone told me that a mad man was found dead with his skull opened and the brain was taken out and some parts that were not disclosed but lucky enough the guy who did this was caught by the security guards of Makwande Guesthouse And then they beaten by them and the cops took their time to embrace us with their presence and the murderer was taken to hospital like a king wanting no one coming any closer to him.

Two murder cases in one week, then the residents called an emergency meeting and the cops were there to keep the peace and when residents asked what is going to happen about this case they said, nothing much is going to be done because "the residents got to the scene first and probably messed with the evidence" which I still don't understand how.

This all means this guy will be walking among us soon because of how the cops handle these cases. Now the residents have sworn to handle things themselves because the cops ain't doing their jobs and they have sworn that if they see that guy they will kill him then call the cops after.

Now I wonder who are we going to trust if we can't be protected by our own police?
Is it because the police are involved in these murders hence they respond the way they do?
Why will we be arrested for taking the law into our own hands if the police can't do their jobs?

Even I am scared of going home now because you don't know who is the next target and I can't be having my parts taken out because I still wanna live a very long life.

This town needs some external help because it has failed to help itself and protect us. HELP BIZANA WE DYING HERE

2014 THE YEAR TO PROSPER

Happy new year from mi family to you. So on the 31st of December 2013 i went to a Gospel Celebration and it was so amazing to be there even though i left before every singer entered the stage. the most amazing part was when we were getting motivation speech from " Mthunzi Namba" he quoted from the bible that the Lord worked making this world and he rested on the 7th day and then he blessed the day and putted a command that no-one should do any work on that day because its a day where you get all your blessings. Now we are in 2014 which simple means everything you do it will be blessed because 7+7=14 meaning you will get double blessing, double success and prosper to your fullest.

Many people made Resolutions for this year and most of them wont even live up to them because of many challenges of the world but my advice to is that you should not make a resolution that you know you can not fulfill. But you have to aim @ the sky so that when you fall the clouds catch you and lift you up again. My Resolution never changes as years changes because i know what is the meaning of it. ' make each day count" is my only resolution and will never change it because when you don't make each day count then it simple means that's as days get wasted and so as what you wish to achieve in life.

Anyway let me not bore you with all the lecture because i'm no expect i'm only an individual.

I wish you a :-
Fantastic January
Love able February
Marvelous March
Foolish April
Enjoyable May
Successful June
Wonderful July
Independent August
Powerful September
Tastiest October
Beautiful November
Happiest December

Have a VICTORIOUS Year

Marrage these days

Now this is my crazy opinion so please don't kill me for it. In places I lived in I realized that people are not getting married, all the do is cohabitation and giving birth to kids out of wedlock.

From my work place there are really old ladies the who most are in their late 30's and early 40's and yet they are not married and I wondered who are they waiting for?

1. Why people get married and Divorce?
I realized that people in this 21st century do not get married because they are madly in-love and can't bear to live their lives without each other, they get married because its convenient and they love the idea of getting married to you. And then when challenges come your way they take the easy way out because they were not in it for the bitter end.

2. Which AGE is appropriate for getting married?
Now let's look @ this, I also noticed that women who are in their late 30's are very rare to get married to guys who were not married before. Most of the time when u over 30 the chances of you getting married is to man who maybe got out of a Divorce or who his wife died and then it makes me wonder.

When you get married @ your 20's it is highly possible that when you reach your 40's you might be divorce and when you marry @ your 30's to 40's you only get guys who come from marriages.

In the olden day people got married a lot nd they stayed in their marriages through out,
How did they do it?
Why can't we do it?
Why such a high rate od divorces?
What is it we doing wrong?

Let's hear ur views, which age is appropriate to get Hitched and how do you stay in it forever?

Nelson Mandela

The Hero of a Failed Struggle: Mandela Rholihlahla!

Mandela is dead! Sobukwe born on the very day! What can I say.

First Mandela is a hero impoverished and hungry people. He is a hero of exploited workers, a hero of street vendors and hawkers, a hero to those who have no access to health care, education. He is a hero of a poor people. He is a hero of a greatful majority in misery.

He is a man of peace, a negotiator, a diplomat and a so called democrat. He is an architect of the current democratic apartheid. He is a pioneer and a designed of TRC. Thus he is a hero to the white and black community. This same hero has done heroic work of keeping those who call him such in chains of poverty and lack of access.

Yesterday when he "died" eventually, he left the following legacy:

More than 30percent of our people are unemployed. Millions leave under 2 dollars a day. 72 percent of the unemployed is youth. He lives no hospitals, no clinics, no police stations, no proper roads, no access to appropriate justice socially.

Most importantly, he leaves the most and the core of the initial struggle unanswered. He leaves the land question hanging. 93 percent of the land was stolen. He engaged in a struggle. Later he sold it out by agreeing to a willing buyer-willing seller clause. Today only less than 8 percent of the land is return to its rightful owners. Almost 20 years later, he leaves behind more than a family of more than 50 million hungry and impoverished, exploited and denegrated.

If this man sold the heart of the struggle of our people, then he is a hero to the lumpen, to the ideologically bankrupt, to the philistine scholar and bourgeoisie, a brainwashed learner and student and a fictitious politician and theoretician.
To the ideologically and politically trained scholarly pan africanist: african nationalist and socialist, Mandela is an empty hero of Britain and the Rest of Western Europe.
May his soul never rest until the land question is answered. And may all his chronies remaining on planet earth die sooner by revolutionary bullet of the young revolutionaries of Azania.

Land, Education, Socialism - a Revolutionary war for ultimate absolute freedom after the death of a sellout!

By Lunga X Mantashe

Tips on Long Distance Relationship

Now I know that I'm not a love expect nor love guru but I know a thing or two abwt long distance relationship because I had my experience of if and still do. When you are distant from your partner a lot of things happen, you start to lose connection because we get broke nd can't call each other everyday, our partners start acting very weird and we start making our own sense of what is happening. Now here is the 1st step on dealing with this. 1. You both need to trust each other unconditionally nd tell your self dat no distance is greater than your love. 2. You both need to be faithful to each other because if you not then ur relationship is doomed to fade. 3. If you on social network make sure than no matter how buzy you both are, find an hour or two nd chat with ur partner so to keep the bond alive. Like I said, I'm no love expect but myb these few things can help. XOXO. Prim

Eatern Cape, Department of Education Failure

Eastern Cape education department happen to be avery whack department when comes to delivering the sevices to the teachers. Let's look at this issue, I have been appointed to teach in the districk of Lusikisiki to teach there and its been 7 months and up until today I have not seen a dime of mi payment and it really sucks. The Eastern cape department have clear explanation on why the mney have not been sent to us and not the only one.
 
I wnder why the government is not doing anythng about this because its nt like tey do not knw wat is happening to  this department. how are we suppose to decrease this high rate of shortage of teachers if we keep on being treated like this. thanx to Fundza Lushaka stuck in tis hole shit of a Department otherwise I would have left a long time ago.

Put some double lense on it and get answers