Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Marrage these days

Now this is my crazy opinion so please don't kill me for it. In places I lived in I realized that people are not getting married, all the do is cohabitation and giving birth to kids out of wedlock.

From my work place there are really old ladies the who most are in their late 30's and early 40's and yet they are not married and I wondered who are they waiting for?

1. Why people get married and Divorce?
I realized that people in this 21st century do not get married because they are madly in-love and can't bear to live their lives without each other, they get married because its convenient and they love the idea of getting married to you. And then when challenges come your way they take the easy way out because they were not in it for the bitter end.

2. Which AGE is appropriate for getting married?
Now let's look @ this, I also noticed that women who are in their late 30's are very rare to get married to guys who were not married before. Most of the time when u over 30 the chances of you getting married is to man who maybe got out of a Divorce or who his wife died and then it makes me wonder.

When you get married @ your 20's it is highly possible that when you reach your 40's you might be divorce and when you marry @ your 30's to 40's you only get guys who come from marriages.

In the olden day people got married a lot nd they stayed in their marriages through out,
How did they do it?
Why can't we do it?
Why such a high rate od divorces?
What is it we doing wrong?

Let's hear ur views, which age is appropriate to get Hitched and how do you stay in it forever?

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