Now this is my crazy opinion so please don't kill me for it. In places I lived in I realized that people are not getting married, all the do is cohabitation and giving birth to kids out of wedlock.
From my work place there are really old ladies the who most are in their late 30's and early 40's and yet they are not married and I wondered who are they waiting for?
1. Why people get married and Divorce?
I realized that people in this 21st century do not get married because they are madly in-love and can't bear to live their lives without each other, they get married because its convenient and they love the idea of getting married to you. And then when challenges come your way they take the easy way out because they were not in it for the bitter end.
2. Which AGE is appropriate for getting married?
Now let's look @ this, I also noticed that women who are in their late 30's are very rare to get married to guys who were not married before. Most of the time when u over 30 the chances of you getting married is to man who maybe got out of a Divorce or who his wife died and then it makes me wonder.
When you get married @ your 20's it is highly possible that when you reach your 40's you might be divorce and when you marry @ your 30's to 40's you only get guys who come from marriages.
In the olden day people got married a lot nd they stayed in their marriages through out,
How did they do it?
Why can't we do it?
Why such a high rate od divorces?
What is it we doing wrong?
Let's hear ur views, which age is appropriate to get Hitched and how do you stay in it forever?
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Friday, December 6, 2013
Nelson Mandela
The Hero of a Failed Struggle: Mandela Rholihlahla!
Mandela is dead! Sobukwe born on the very day! What can I say.
First Mandela is a hero impoverished and hungry people. He is a hero of exploited workers, a hero of street vendors and hawkers, a hero to those who have no access to health care, education. He is a hero of a poor people. He is a hero of a greatful majority in misery.
He is a man of peace, a negotiator, a diplomat and a so called democrat. He is an architect of the current democratic apartheid. He is a pioneer and a designed of TRC. Thus he is a hero to the white and black community. This same hero has done heroic work of keeping those who call him such in chains of poverty and lack of access.
Yesterday when he "died" eventually, he left the following legacy:
More than 30percent of our people are unemployed. Millions leave under 2 dollars a day. 72 percent of the unemployed is youth. He lives no hospitals, no clinics, no police stations, no proper roads, no access to appropriate justice socially.
Most importantly, he leaves the most and the core of the initial struggle unanswered. He leaves the land question hanging. 93 percent of the land was stolen. He engaged in a struggle. Later he sold it out by agreeing to a willing buyer-willing seller clause. Today only less than 8 percent of the land is return to its rightful owners. Almost 20 years later, he leaves behind more than a family of more than 50 million hungry and impoverished, exploited and denegrated.
If this man sold the heart of the struggle of our people, then he is a hero to the lumpen, to the ideologically bankrupt, to the philistine scholar and bourgeoisie, a brainwashed learner and student and a fictitious politician and theoretician.
To the ideologically and politically trained scholarly pan africanist: african nationalist and socialist, Mandela is an empty hero of Britain and the Rest of Western Europe.
May his soul never rest until the land question is answered. And may all his chronies remaining on planet earth die sooner by revolutionary bullet of the young revolutionaries of Azania.
Land, Education, Socialism - a Revolutionary war for ultimate absolute freedom after the death of a sellout!
By Lunga X Mantashe
Mandela is dead! Sobukwe born on the very day! What can I say.
First Mandela is a hero impoverished and hungry people. He is a hero of exploited workers, a hero of street vendors and hawkers, a hero to those who have no access to health care, education. He is a hero of a poor people. He is a hero of a greatful majority in misery.
He is a man of peace, a negotiator, a diplomat and a so called democrat. He is an architect of the current democratic apartheid. He is a pioneer and a designed of TRC. Thus he is a hero to the white and black community. This same hero has done heroic work of keeping those who call him such in chains of poverty and lack of access.
Yesterday when he "died" eventually, he left the following legacy:
More than 30percent of our people are unemployed. Millions leave under 2 dollars a day. 72 percent of the unemployed is youth. He lives no hospitals, no clinics, no police stations, no proper roads, no access to appropriate justice socially.
Most importantly, he leaves the most and the core of the initial struggle unanswered. He leaves the land question hanging. 93 percent of the land was stolen. He engaged in a struggle. Later he sold it out by agreeing to a willing buyer-willing seller clause. Today only less than 8 percent of the land is return to its rightful owners. Almost 20 years later, he leaves behind more than a family of more than 50 million hungry and impoverished, exploited and denegrated.
If this man sold the heart of the struggle of our people, then he is a hero to the lumpen, to the ideologically bankrupt, to the philistine scholar and bourgeoisie, a brainwashed learner and student and a fictitious politician and theoretician.
To the ideologically and politically trained scholarly pan africanist: african nationalist and socialist, Mandela is an empty hero of Britain and the Rest of Western Europe.
May his soul never rest until the land question is answered. And may all his chronies remaining on planet earth die sooner by revolutionary bullet of the young revolutionaries of Azania.
Land, Education, Socialism - a Revolutionary war for ultimate absolute freedom after the death of a sellout!
By Lunga X Mantashe
Friday, November 22, 2013
Tips on Long Distance Relationship
Now I know that I'm not a love expect nor love guru but I know a thing or two abwt long distance relationship because I had my experience of if and still do. When you are distant from your partner a lot of things happen, you start to lose connection because we get broke nd can't call each other everyday, our partners start acting very weird and we start making our own sense of what is happening. Now here is the 1st step on dealing with this.
1. You both need to trust each other unconditionally nd tell your self dat no distance is greater than your love.
2. You both need to be faithful to each other because if you not then ur relationship is doomed to fade.
3. If you on social network make sure than no matter how buzy you both are, find an hour or two nd chat with ur partner so to keep the bond alive.
Like I said, I'm no love expect but myb these few things can help.
XOXO. Prim
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Eatern Cape, Department of Education Failure
Eastern Cape education department happen to be avery whack department when comes to delivering the sevices to the teachers. Let's look at this issue, I have been appointed to teach in the districk of Lusikisiki to teach there and its been 7 months and up until today I have not seen a dime of mi payment and it really sucks. The Eastern cape department have clear explanation on why the mney have not been sent to us and not the only one.
I wnder why the government is not doing anythng about this because its nt like tey do not knw wat is happening to this department. how are we suppose to decrease this high rate of shortage of teachers if we keep on being treated like this. thanx to Fundza Lushaka stuck in tis hole shit of a Department otherwise I would have left a long time ago.
Put some double lense on it and get answers
I wnder why the government is not doing anythng about this because its nt like tey do not knw wat is happening to this department. how are we suppose to decrease this high rate of shortage of teachers if we keep on being treated like this. thanx to Fundza Lushaka stuck in tis hole shit of a Department otherwise I would have left a long time ago.
Put some double lense on it and get answers
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